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living our lives

Tiko, for my birthday, sent me a copy of a great book that has helped through some very hard times. It is something to learn and focus on everyday, and today’s is particularly fitting and so worth a listen.

Living Our Lives
May 18

Don’t stop living your life.

So often, when a problem occurs, inside or around us, we revert to thinking that if we put our life on hold we can positively contribute to the solution. If a relationship isn’t working, we face a difficult decision, if we’re feeling depressed, we may put our life on hold and torment ourselves with obsessive thoughts.

Abandoning our life or routines contributes to the problem and delays us from finding the solution.

Frequently, the solution comes when we let go enough to live our life, return to our routine, and stop obsessing about the problem.

Sometimes, even if we don’t feel like we have let go or can let go, we can “act as if” we have, and that will help bring about the letting go that we desire. You don’t have to give up your power to problems. You can take your focus off your problem and direct it to your life, trusting that doing so will bring you closer to a solution.

Today, I will go on living my life and tending to my routine. I will decide, as often as I need to, to stop obsessing about whatever is bothering me. If I don’t feel like letting go of a particular thing, I will “act as if” I have let go of it until my feelings match my behavior.

The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie

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One Response to “living our lives”

  1. Can you tell I’m catching up on my blog reading??

    I LOVE Melody Beattie. She’s helped me through some dark times.

    Posted by LVGurl | May 26, 2007, 9:21 am

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